Best Friends and Life Changes.

There are people out there that have had that one special friend that they have known since they were in diapers.  They hung out together, played together, fought together and cried together.  They went to school together, studied together, took the bus and train home together.  They talked about the past together, talked about the present together, and talked about the future together.  It would seem as if fate were bringing the two closer and closer to each other with every look, every meet, every conversation.  But then things change.  One of them goes away.  Or one of them gets married all of a sudden.  Something happens that completely changes the dynamic of the relationship.  All of a sudden they don’t see each other as much.  They don’t talk to each other as much.  And you have this special relationship that is just lingering in the air…it doesn’t really have a place.  It just…is.  They may call it a friendship but both know that there is more deep down inside it. 

I don’t really know why this sort thing happens.  Is it fate or is it the will of God?  Why is it that two people that are meant to be with each other, end up with people that they really weren’t meant to be with?  It may be a strong word to describe such a scenario but I think its a tragedy that such people don’t end up together.  Kismet ve ek pairi cheez hon di hai.  Some have it good and some have it bad.  More often than none, in my experiences and from what I have seen, it seems that best friends like that always see the bad side of Kismat.  For Kismat to create a distance between two best friends who show all the signs of being meant to be with each other is inherently unjust. 

Its everytime she looks you in the eyes and smiles at you, you know she loves you.  You can see it in her eyes.  The caring, the compassion, the love…its all visable in her eyes.  Its just that destiny had dealt us certain cards which didn’t end up in our favor.  You want to feel something but you can’t because you don’t really know what it is in the first place.  Its just something that is lingering in the air…Its something but its nothing.  An entity with no real identity….no home…

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5 responses to “Best Friends and Life Changes.

  1. It seems like this eliminates the concept of control. We can make the effort, express how we feel, and determine the fate of our friendships. At least I have thus far. If someone is important to me, it takes a lot more than circumstance and new people to pull them away from me.

  2. Sometimes circumstances overtake control.

  3. Thanks for visiting my blog and commenting on the article, Mastmalang!

    This post sounds somehow sad, and I guess I can see your point clearly.
    There are always stronger connections, even if we call it “friendship” – they go straight into the heart, and stay there forever…

    PS. sorry for curiosity, it is you on your avatar picture or Ali Khan? 😉

  4. Thanks for visiting my blog as well!

    And yes, its Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan 🙂

  5. I love his music!!! great to meet somebody who shares it 😉

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